TOP or BOTTOM? It’s the term use in third sex community, wherein related to sex or position of your partner. Somehow, being TOP or BOTTOM is a big deal to most number of bisexuals in the country.
When we say TOP, siya ang gumagawa ng role ng isang lalaki talaga at hindi lang basta nasa ibabaw. He can suck but most of the time, siya ang nagfafuck sa BOTTOM. For others naman, ang TOP ang gumagawa ng lahat samantalang kapag BOTTOM ay tagasunod lang.
Kapag sinabi naming BOTTOM, of course, siya naman ang nagsasuck at nagpapafuck sa isang TOP.
Meron namang VERSA as in versatile na pwedeng maging TOP or BOTTOM. Syempre, depende naman ito sa partner niya.
Ang partners raw na parehas TOP ay pwedeng magtagal samantalang hindi naman ganun sa parehas na BOTTOM. Sa parehas na TOP, pwede silang magjerk lang pero ang parehas na BOTTOM ay hindi gaanong masasatisfy saganun lang.
TOP or BOTTOM? It’s the preferred role that you want to portray when you and your partner make love. It is not based on how you act or how you look as a person. That is why it’s called preferred because it’s what you want and no one can ever question that. For some, it is essential, for some, it is not. But the bottom line is that, being TOP or BOTTOM does not make you less of a person. It’s more of what you want and not what you are.